Njengomyili, impembelelo, okanye umnini wamashishini amancinci, ubukho bakho be-intanethi buyindawo engaphambili yevenkile yakho, ipotfoliyo yakho, kunye nendawo yakho yoluntu zonke zifakwe kwindawo enye. Kulapho wakhela khona ibhrendi yakho kwaye uqhagamshelene nabaphulaphuli bakho. Kodwa masinyaniseke: ukuvula eso sithuba kwihlabathi kukwathetha ukusivulela ukugxekwa, ukungakhathali, kunye ne-intanethi ngamaxesha athile. Loo mvakalelo yokuntywila xa ubona amagqabantshintshi arhabaxa okanye umyalezo ocaphukisayo ngabom yinto yonke ingcali ye-intanethi ejongene nayo. Iindaba ezilungileyo? Awunamandla. Ukujongana nengxelo engakhiyo sisakhono onokuthi usibambe, ujike imiqobo enokuthi ibe ngamathuba okukhula kunye nokunyaniseka kwabaphulaphuli okunamandla. Esi sikhokelo siya kukuhamba ngesicwangciso esisebenzayo, esisebenzayo sokuphatha izimvo ezingalunganga kunye neetroli. Siza kugubungela indlela yokuxelela umahluko phakathi kokugxeka okwakhayo kunye nokunyathela okumsulwa, ixesha lokuzibandakanya kunye nexesha lokungahoyi, kunye nendlela yokukhusela impilo yakho yengqondo kwinkqubo. Injongo yakho ayikokwenza icandelo lezimvo elingenako nakuphi na ukungavisisani-ayiyonyani leyo kwaye inokuthintela incoko yokwenyani. Endaweni yoko, injongo kukukhuthaza uluntu oluhloniphekileyo apho uziva ulawula.
Ukuqonda i-Landscape: Ukugxekwa vs. Trolling Ngaphambi kokuba ukwazi ukulawula ngokufanelekileyo izimvo zakho, kufuneka uqonde into ojongene nayo. Ayizizo zonke iimpendulo ezingalunganga ezenziwe ngokulinganayo. Ukufunda ukwahlula phakathi komgxeki wokwenyani kunye ne-troll ngumgca wakho wokuqala wokuzikhusela.
Ijongeka Njani Ukugxekwa Okwakhayo? Ukugxeka okwakhayo, nangona maxa wambi kunzima ukuva, ngokwenene kuxabisekile. Ivela kwindawo yothethathethwano lokwenene. Umgqali unokuba ngumlandeli oye waphoxeka okanye umthengi onamava angaphantsi kune-perfect. Iingxelo zabo, nokuba zingalunganga, zichanekile kwaye zibonelela ngendlela enokwenzeka yokuphucula.
Icacisiwe: "Iaudiyo kwipodcast yakho yamva nje ibithe cwaka kwaye i-echoey, bendinengxaki yokukuva." Ijolise kwiNjongo: "Ndiyawuthanda umxholo wakho, kodwa ndinqwenela ukuba incwadana yakho yeendaba yeveki ibe nokuqonda okungaphaya kwe-scenes." Lunentlonipho: Nokuba bakhathazekile, banxibelelana ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa okanye ukuthukwa.
Olu hlobo lokuphawula lithuba. Ibonisa ukuba umntu uwukhathalele ngokwaneleyo umsebenzi wakho ukuze anike ingxelo.
Ukuchonga iTroli Kwelinye icala, uTrolls akanamdla kwincoko enemveliso. Injongo yabo kukuxhokonxa ukusabela ngokweemvakalelo, ukuphelisa iingxoxo, nokudala isiphithiphithi. Izimvo zabo zenzelwe ukungena phantsi kwesikhumba sakho.
Ayicacanga kwaye iyathuka:"Usisibhanxa. Lo mxholo yinkunkuma." I-Off-Topic okanye i-Inflammatory: Bazisa imiba engabalulekanga yezopolitiko okanye yobuqu ukuqala umlo. Iyaphindaphinda: Basenokuthumela izimvo ezingalunganga ezifanayo kumaqonga amaninzi okanye ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwisithuba esinye. Basebenzisa uhlaselo lomntu siqu: Ugxininiso luyatshintsha emsebenzini wakho luye kuwe njengomntu.
Ukuqaphela i-troll yento abayiyo kukuvumela ukuba ukhuphe ngokweemvakalelo kwaye usebenzise izixhobo ezifanelekileyo ukuzilawula.
Isicwangciso sakho sokuSebenza: uPhendula njani (okanye ungaphenduli) Ngoku ukwazi ukuchonga uhlobo lwezimvo ojongene nazo, masithethe ngesicwangciso sakho sokuphendula. Ukuba nesicwangciso endaweni kukuthintela ekuphenduleni ngokungxama kubushushu bomzuzu.
Inyathelo 1: Misa kwaye uvavanye Ithuku lakho lokuqala inokuba kukucima impendulo ekhawulezayo, ekhuselayo. Musa. Thatha umphefumlo onzulu. Suka kwikhibhodi imizuzu embalwa. Zibuze imibuzo ephambili kwicandelo elidlulileyo: Ngaba oku kugxeka okanye ukunyathela? Ngaba kukho inqaku elisemthethweni elingcwatywe kwi-negativity? Lo mzuzu wokunqumama ubalulekile ekugcineni ubungcali bakho.
Inyathelo lesi-2: Zibandakanye neziGxoko ezakhayo Xa uchonga ingxelo eyakhayo, eli lithuba lakho lokuqaqamba. Indlela okusingatha ngayo ukugxekwa inokwakha intembeko enkulu kubaphulaphuli bakho bonke, abaya kujonga indlela obaphatha ngayo abagxeki bakho.
Bavume kwaye Ubabulele: Qala ngokuqinisekisa umzamo wabo. "Enkosi ngokuthatha ixesha ukwabelana ngengxelo yakho." Oku kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza imeko. Yazisa Kwinqaku Elithile: Bonisa ukuba umamele. "Unyanisile, umgangatho womsindo kweso siqendu wawungekho kumgangatho wam oqhelekileyo. Ndijonge kwizixhobo ezitsha zokuthintela oko." Thatha iNcoko ngaphandle kweintanethi ukuba iyafuneka: Kwimiba entsonkothileyo, ngakumbi enxulumene nenkonzo yabathengi, nikezela ngokufudukela ngqo kwimiyalezo okanye kwi-imeyile. "Ndiyaxolisa ukuva ngamava akho. Ndicela undithumelele inombolo yeodolo yakho kwiDM ukuze ndiyijonge ngokwam le nto?" Oku kubonisa ukuzinikela ngaphandle kokukhupha zonke iinkcukachaesidlangalaleni. Isixhobo esifana ne-Seemless sinokuba luncedo apha, ikuvumela ukuba unikeze ikhonkco elithe ngqo kwifom yoqhagamshelwano okanye iphepha lenkxaso ngqo kwi-bio yakho.
Inyathelo 3: Susa izixhobo kwaye ukhuphe kwi-Trolls Ukuzibandakanya ne-troll ngokwemiqathango yabo lidabi elilahlekileyo. Injongo yakho kukunciphisa impembelelo yabo ngaphandle kokubanika impendulo abayinqwenelayo.
I-Polite Brush-Off: Impendulo elula, engenamvakalelo inokusebenza ngokumangalisayo. "Enkosi ngombono wakho." Emva koko, yima. Ungaqhubeki nencoko. Sebenzisa Uburharha (Ngononophelo): Ukuba ilingana nebhrendi yakho, isiqhulo esinentliziyo ekhanyayo, esingangqubanisiyo sinokuphazamisa iinzame zetroli. Lumka kakhulu ungavakali uphoxa okanye unomoya okhohlakeleyo wena. Olona khetho lulungileyo: Ungahoyi kwaye ucime / uvale: Khumbula, ungumlondolozi wendawo yakho. Ukuba uluvo luxhaphaza, lunentiyo, okanye lwenzelwe ukuhlukumeza, unalo lonke ilungelo lokulucima kwaye uthintele umsebenzisi. Olu asilulo uqwalaselo; lulawulo loluntu.
Ukwakha iNkcubeko yoLuntu oluNgcono Ulawulo olusebenzayo loluntu lolona khuselo lulungileyo lwexesha elide ngokuchasene nenegativity. Xa ukhuthaza inkcubeko eyomeleleyo, eyakhayo, uluntu lwakho luya kuhlala lukunceda ukuba ulawule iitroli kwaye uqinise amaxabiso akho.
Misela iziKhokelo zoLuntu ezicacileyo Yenza icace imigaqo yothethathethwano. Faka iposi okanye wenze icandelo elithi "Wamkelekile" kwiprofayile yakho elichaza ukuba luhlobo luni lwamagqabaza olwamkelekileyo kwaye yintoni engasayi kunyanyezelwa. Oku kukunika isiseko esicacileyo sokumodareyitha izimvo kwaye kubonisa abaphulaphuli bakho ukuba uyayixabisa indawo ehloniphekileyo.
Khokela ngoMzekelo Ithoni yakho ibeka umgangatho. Yiba nobubele, uhlonipheke, kwaye unyaniseke kuyo yonke intsebenziswano yakho. Xa ungumzekelo wendlela yokuziphatha ofuna ukuyibona, abona balandeli bakho bathembekileyo baya kukulandela. Bahlala betsibela ekukhuseleni okanye babize ukuziphatha okunetyhefu ngaphambi kokuba uyibone.
Balaselisa iiNdibaniselwano Ezilungileyo Shift isibane. Thanda rhoqo, phendula, kwaye wabelane ngezimvo ezakhayo. Unokwenza umxholo osekwe kwimibuzo emikhulu okanye impendulo evela kuluntu lwakho. Oku komeleza uhlobo lothethathethwano olufunayo kwaye kwenza abaxhasi abalungileyo bazive bexatyisiwe. Ukunciphisa la maxesha amnandi kwi-reel ebalaseleyo kwiqonga elinjenge-Seemless kunokubonisa okona kulungileyo koluntu lwakho kwiindwendwe ezintsha.
Ukukhusela Impilo Yakho Yengqondo Ukujongana ne-negativity, nangona xa uyiphatha ngokugqibeleleyo, inokukhupha. Ukukhusela impilo yakho yengqondo asinto ilula; yinxalenye eyimfuneko yomsebenzi wakho njengomdali.
Yenza imida Awudingi kufumaneka 24/7. Beka amaxesha athile ukujonga izimvo kunye nokubandakanyeka kwimidiya yoluntu. Cima izaziso ngaphandle kwezo yure. Oku kuthintela ukuthontsiza okuthe gqolo kokungalunganga okunokuthi kuchaphazele usuku lwakho lonke.
Musa Ukuyithatha Ngokwakho Oku kulula ukuthetha kunokukwenza, kodwa kubalulekile. Khumbula ukuba iitroli zisebenza ngokwemiba yazo, hayi ngenxa yayo nayiphi na into engalunganga kuwe okanye ngomsebenzi wakho. Ukugxekwa okwakhayo kumalunga nemveliso yakho, hayi ukubaluleka kwakho njengomntu.
Yakha iNkqubo yeNkxaso Thetha nabanye abaqulunqi bakho, abahlobo, okanye umcebisi oqonda iingcinezelo ezizodwa zokuba kwi-intanethi. Ukuba nendawo ekhuselekileyo yokuphuma kunye nokufumana umbono kubaluleke kakhulu. Uya kufunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba awuwedwa kula mava.
Ukujonga izimvo ezingalunganga kunye neetroli yinxalenye engenakuthintelwa yokwakha ubukho be-intanethi, kodwa akufuneki ukuba ikulahlekise. Ngokuqonda injongo emva kwezimvo, ukuba nesicwangciso sokuphendula esicacileyo, ukukhuthaza uluntu oluhle, kunye nokubeka phambili impilo yakho yengqondo, unokuguqula le mingeni ibe ngamathuba okubonisa ubuchule bakho kunye nokomeleza uphawu lwakho. Khumbula, icandelo lamagqabaza elilawulwa kakuhle luphawu loluntu olusempilweni, olukhulayo. Leliphi icebiso lakho elingcono lokusingatha izinto ezingalunganga kwi-intanethi? Yabelana ngeengcinga zakho noluntu lwethu lwabadali kunye nabanini bamashishini amancinci!
