Njengomdali, umgqugquzeli, noma umnikazi wamabhizinisi amancane, ukuba khona kwakho ku-inthanethi kungaphambili kwesitolo sakho, iphothifoliyo yakho, kanye nesikhungo sakho somphakathi konke kuhlanganiswe ndawonye. Kulapho owakha khona umkhiqizo wakho futhi uxhumane nezithameli zakho. Kodwa masithembeke: ukuvulela umhlaba leso sikhala kuphinde kusho ukusivulela ekugxekweni, ekubukekeni okungalungile, kanye ne-inthanethi yezikhathi ezithile. Lowo muzwa ocwilayo lapho ubona amazwana anokhahlo noma umlayezo wamabomu ovusa inkanuko yinto wonke umuntu ochwepheshe abaku-inthanethi ababhekana nayo. Izindaba ezinhle? Awunamandla. Ukubhekana nempendulo engemihle kuyikhono ongalibamba, uguqule izithiyo ezingaba khona zibe amathuba okukhula kanye nokwethembeka kwezithameli ezinamandla nakakhulu. Lo mhlahlandlela uzokuhambisa ngesu elisebenzayo, elisebenzisekayo lokuphatha amazwana angalungile kanye nama-troll. Sizofaka ukuthi ungawuhlukanisa kanjani umehluko phakathi kokugxeka okwakhayo nokuzulazula, nini ukuziba nokuthi ungaziba nini, nokuthi ungayivikela kanjani impilo yakho yengqondo kule nqubo. Umgomo wakho awukona ukudala isigaba samazwana esingenakho noma yikuphi ukungaboni ngaso linye—lokho akunangqondo futhi kungamisa ingxoxo yangempela. Kunalokho, inhloso ukukhuthaza umphakathi ohloniphekile lapho uzizwa ulawula khona.
Ukuqonda I-Landscape: Ukugxeka vs. Trolling Ngaphambi kokuthi ukwazi ukuphatha amazwana akho ngempumelelo, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ubhekene nani. Akuyona yonke impendulo engemihle eyenziwe yalingana. Ukufunda ukuhlukanisa phakathi komgxeki wangempela kanye ne-troll umugqa wakho wokuqala wokuzivikela.
Kubukeka Kanjani Ukugxeka Okwakhayo? Ukugxeka okwakhayo, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukukuzwa, empeleni kuyigugu. Ivela endaweni yokusebenzelana kwangempela. Obeka amazwana angase abe umlandeli ophoxekile noma ikhasimende elinolwazi olungaphelele. Impendulo yabo, noma ingalungile, icacile futhi inikeza indlela engase ibe ngcono.
Kucacisiwe: "Umsindo wesiqephu sakho sakamuva se-podcast ubuthule futhi une-echoey, ngibe nenkinga yokukuzwa." I-Goal-Oriented: "Ngiyakuthanda okuqukethwe kwakho, kodwa ngifisa sengathi incwadi yakho yezindaba yangeviki ibe nemininingwane eminingi engemuva kwesigcawu." Kuyinhlonipho: Ngisho noma bekhungathekile, bakhuluma ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa komuntu siqu noma ukuthukwa.
Lolu hlobo lwamazwana luyithuba. Kubonisa ukuthi othile uwukhathalela ngokwanele umsebenzi wakho ukuze anikeze impendulo.
Ukuhlonza i-Troll Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ama-Trolls akanandaba nengxoxo ekhiqizayo. Umgomo wabo uwukuvusa ukusabela okungokomzwelo, ukuqeda izingxoxo, nokudala isiphithiphithi. Amazwana abo enzelwe ukungena ngaphansi kwesikhumba sakho.
Akucacile futhi Kuyathuka: "Uyisilima. Lokhu okuqukethwe kuwudoti." Akunasihloko noma Kuyavuvukala: Baveza izindaba ezingabalulekile zezombusazwe noma zomuntu siqu ukuze baqale ukulwa. Kuyaphindaphinda: Bangase bathumele amazwana amabi afanayo ezinkundleni eziningi noma ngokuphindaphindiwe kokuthunyelwe okukodwa. Basebenzisa Ukuhlasela Komuntu Siqu: Ukugxila kuyasuka emsebenzini wakho kuye kuwe njengomuntu.
Ukubona i-troll yalokho eyiko kukuvumela ukuthi uzikhiphe ngokomzwelo futhi usebenzise amathuluzi afanele ukuze uyilawule.
Uhlelo Lwakho Lwesenzo: Ungaphendula Kanjani (noma Ungaphenduli) Manje njengoba usukwazi ukuhlonza uhlobo lwamazwana obhekene nalo, ake sikhulume ngesu lakho lokuphendula. Ukuba nohlelo olukhona kukuvimbela ukuthi ungaphenduli ngokuxhamazela lapho kushisa.
Isinyathelo 1: Misa isikhashana futhi uhlole Umzwelo wakho wokuqala kungase kube ukuxosha impendulo esheshayo, evikelayo. Ungakwenzi. Adonse umoya kakhulu. Suka kude nekhibhodi imizuzu embalwa. Zibuze imibuzo ebalulekile evela esigabeni esedlule: Ingabe lokhu kugxeka noma ukunyathela? Ingabe likhona iphuzu elivumelekile eligqitshwe ekungabini kwayo? Lesi sikhathi sokumisa isikhashana sibalulekile ekugcineni ubuhlakani bakho.
Isinyathelo sesi-2: Zibandakanye Nokugxeka Okwakhayo Uma ukhomba impendulo eyakhayo, leli yithuba lakho lokugqama. Indlela okusingatha ngayo ukugxekwa ingakha ukwethenjwa okukhulu kuzo zonke izithameli zakho, ezizobe zibukele ukuthi uphatha kanjani abakugxekayo.
Bavume Futhi Ubabonge: Qala ngokuqinisekisa umzamo wabo. "Siyabonga ngokuthatha isikhathi ukwabelana ngempendulo yakho." Lokhu kwehlisa ngokushesha isimo. Khuluma Nephuzu Eliqondile: Bonisa ukuthi ulalele. "Uqinisile, ikhwalithi yomsindo kuleso siqephu ibingekho ezingeni lami elijwayelekile. Ngibheka okokusebenza okusha ukuze ngivimbele lokho." Yenza Ingxoxo Ingaxhunyiwe Ku-inthanethi Uma Idingeka: Ngezinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi, ikakhulukazi ezihlobene nesevisi yamakhasimende, nikela ukuhambisa imilayezo eqondile noma i-imeyili. "Ngiyaxolisa ukuzwa ngesipiliyoni sakho. Ngicela ungithumelele inombolo ye-oda lakho ukuze ngizihlolele mathupha lokhu?" Lokhu kukhombisa ukuzinikela ngaphandle kokusakaza yonke imininingwaneesidlangalaleni. Ithuluzi elifana ne-Seemless lingaba usizo lapha, likuvumele ukuthi unikeze isixhumanisi esiqondile sefomu lokuxhumana noma ikhasi lokusekela khona kanye kumlando wakho.
Isinyathelo sesi-3: Nciphisa futhi Ukhiphe kuma-Troll Ukuzibandakanya ne-troll ngokwemibandela yabo kuyimpi ehlulwayo. Umgomo wakho uwukunciphisa umthelela wabo ngaphandle kokubanika ukusabela abakufisayo.
I-Polite Brush-Off: Impendulo elula, engenamizwa ingasebenza izimanga. "Ngiyabonga ngombono wakho." Bese, yima. Ungaqhubeki nengxoxo. Sebenzisa Amahlaya (Ngokucophelela): Uma kufanela umkhiqizo wakho, ihlaya elinenhliziyo elula, elingaxabani lingehlisa imizamo ye-troll. Qaphela kakhulu ukuthi wena ungazwakali ubhuqa noma unomoya omubi. Inketho Engcono Kakhulu: Ziba futhi Usule/Vimba: Khumbula, ungumlondolozi wesikhala sakho. Uma amazwana ehlukumeza, enenzondo, noma enzelwe ukuhlukumeza kuphela, unalo lonke ilungelo lokuwasusa futhi uvimbele umsebenzisi. Lokhu akuwona ukucwaninga; ukuphathwa komphakathi.
Ukwakha Isiko Lomphakathi Elihle Ukuphathwa komphakathi okusebenzayo kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuzivikela yesikhathi eside ngokumelene nokubi. Uma ukhuthaza isiko eliqinile, eliqondile, umphakathi wakho uvame ukukusiza ukuphatha ama-troll futhi uqinise izindinganiso zakho.
Setha Izinkombandlela Zomphakathi Ezicacile Yenza imithetho yomshado icace. Phina okuthunyelwe noma dala isigaba esithi "Siyakwamukela" kuphrofayela yakho esichaza ukuthi hlobo luni lwamazwana olwamukelekile nokuthi yini engeke ibekezelelwe. Lokhu kukunikeza isisekelo esicacile sokwengamela amazwana futhi kukhombisa izethameli zakho ukuthi uyayazisa indawo enenhlonipho.
Hola Ngesibonelo Ithoni yakho ibeka izinga. Yiba nomusa, uhlonipheke, futhi ube yiqiniso kukho konke ukusebenzisana kwakho. Uma wenza isibonelo sokuziphatha ofuna ukukubona, abalandeli bakho abathembeke kakhulu bazokulandela. Ngokuvamile bazogxumela ukuze bakuvikele noma bamemeze ukuziphatha okunobuthi ngaphambi kokuthi ukubone.
Gqamisa Ukusebenzisana Okuhle Shintsha ukukhanya. Thanda njalo, uphendule, futhi wabelane ngemibono eyakhayo. Ungakwazi ngisho nokudala okuqukethwe ngokusekelwe emibuzweni emihle noma impendulo evela emphakathini wakho. Lokhu kuqinisa uhlobo lokuxhumana olufunayo futhi kwenza abanikelayo bazizwe bebalulekile. Ukulinganisa lezi zikhathi ezinhle ku-reel evelele kuplathifomu efana ne-Seemless kungase futhi kubonise okungcono kakhulu komphakathi wakho ezivakashini ezintsha.
Ukuvikela Impilo Yakho Yengqondo Ukubhekana ne-negativity, ngisho nalapho ukuphatha kahle, kungase kukuqede amandla. Ukuvikela impilo yakho yengqondo akuyona into ewubukhazikhazi; yingxenye edingekayo yomsebenzi wakho njengomdali.
Dala Imingcele Awudingi ukutholakala 24/7. Beka izikhathi eziqondile zokuhlola amazwana futhi uzibandakanye ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Vala izaziso ngaphandle kwalawo mahora. Lokhu kuvimbela ukuconsa okungaguquki kokubi okungaba khona ukuthi kuthinte usuku lwakho lonke.
Ungakuthatheli ngokwakho Lokhu kulula ukukusho kunokukwenza, kodwa kubalulekile. Khumbula ukuthi ama-troll azenzela ezindabeni zawo, hhayi ngenxa yanoma yini engalungile ngokwemvelo ngawe noma ngomsebenzi wakho. Ukugxeka okwakhayo kumayelana nomphumela wakho, hhayi ukubaluleka kwakho njengomuntu.
Yakha Uhlelo Lokusekela Khuluma nabanye abadali, abangani, noma umeluleki oqonda izingcindezi eziyingqayizivele zokuba ku-inthanethi. Ukuba nendawo ephephile yokukhipha umoya futhi uthole umbono kubaluleke kakhulu. Uzofunda ngokushesha ukuthi awuwedwa kulokhu kuzizwisa.
Ukuzulazula kumazwana amabi nama-troll kuyingxenye engenakugwemeka yokwakha ubukhona ku-inthanethi, kodwa akudingekile ukuba kukuphazamise. Ngokuqonda inhloso yamazwana, ukuba nesu elicacile lokuphendula, ukukhuthaza umphakathi omuhle, kanye nokubeka phambili impilo yakho yengqondo, ungaguqula lezi zinselele zibe amathuba okubonisa umsebenzi wakho futhi uqinise umkhiqizo wakho. Khumbula, isigaba sokuphawula esiphethwe kahle siwuphawu lomphakathi onempilo, ochumayo. Iliphi ithiphu lakho elingcono kakhulu lokusingatha izinto ezimbi ku-inthanethi? Yabelana ngemicabango yakho nomphakathi wethu wabadali nabanikazi bamabhizinisi amancane!
