Njengomdali, impilo yakho ivamise ukuzwakala njengokusakaza bukhoma okungu-24/7. Umugqa phakathi komhlaba wakho siqu kanye nomkhiqizo wakho oqeqeshiwe ungafiphalisa kakhulu kangangokuthi ungabonakali. Uhlola ama-DM ngesikhathi sesidlo sakusihlwa somndeni, nixoxa ngemibono yokuqukethwe eshaweni, futhi nizwa ingcindezi yokuthi "uvuliwe" ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lokhu kuxhumana okuqhubekayo, nakuba kubalulekile ekukhuleni, kungaholela ekukhathaleni kobuciko, ubudlelwano obunezinkinga, kanye nokulahlekelwa ubuwena ngaphezu kobuntu bakho obuku-inthanethi. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ukumisa imingcele ecacile akwenzeki nje—kuyisihluthulelo sokwakha umsebenzi osimeme nogculisayo. Lo mhlahlandlela uzokuhamba ngamasu asebenzayo, angasebenziseka okubuyisela isikhathi sakho, uvikele ukuthula kwakho, futhi uchume kokubili ku-inthanethi nangaphandle.
Kungani Ukuhlukana Kungaxoxiswana Ukuze Kube Nempumelelo Yesikhathi Eside Ngaphambi kokuthi singene "kanjani," kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi "kungani." Ukuzama ukuhlanganisa impilo yakho yomuntu siqu neyebhizinisi ngokuphelele kuyithrekhi esheshayo eya ekukhathaleni. Kucabange njengebhethri: uma ulikhipha njalo ngaphandle kokulivumela ukuthi lishaje, ekugcineni uzokwehla ngokuhle. Ukudala ukuhlukana okunempilo yindlela oshaja ngayo.
Izindleko Eziphezulu Zolayini Abafiphele Uma ungekho umehluko phakathi komsebenzi nempilo, kuphakama izinkinga ezimbalwa:
Ukutubeka: Ingcindezi eqhubekayo yokudala, ukuzibandakanya, nokwenza iholela ekukhathaleni kwengqondo nangokomzimba, ibulale ubuhlakani bakho kanye nogqozi. Ukucasuka: Uthando lwakho lungaqala ukuzizwa njengomsebenzi onzima, futhi ungase uqale ukucasukela wona kanye umsebenzi owawuwuthanda. Ubudlelwano Obunzima: Uma ifoni yakho ikhona kakhulu kunabathandekayo bakho, ithatha umonakalo ekuxhumekeni kwakho komuntu siqu. I-Identity Crisis: Uma umuzwa wakho wonke wobuwena uboshelwe kumkhiqizo wakho we-inthanethi, noma yikuphi ukuzibandakanya noma ukuphawula okungekuhle kungase kuphathe kabi.
Izinzuzo Zemingcele Ecacile Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukusungula ukwehlukana kuletha imivuzo emikhulu:
Ukukhiqiza Okungeziwe: Isikhathi somsebenzi ozinikele sisho ukuthi ugxile kakhulu futhi usebenza kahle, ukhulula isikhathi somuntu siqu sangempela. Ukudala Okuthuthukisiwe: Ukuhamba kuvumela ingqondo yakho ukuthi iphumule futhi yenza ukuxhumana okusha, okuholela emibonweni emisha, emisha. Impilo Yengqondo Ethuthukisiwe: Ukuvikela indawo yakho yomuntu siqu kunciphisa ukukhathazeka nengcindezi, kukwenze umdali ojabule, noqinile. Ibhrendi Eqinile: Umdali ophumule kahle, olinganiselayo angakhiqiza okuqukethwe kwekhwalithi ephezulu futhi azibandakanye nezithameli zakhe ngokuyiqiniso.
Amasu Asebenzayo Okudala Imingcele Engokwenyama Nedijithali Ukwehlukana kuqala ngendawo okuyo. Kokubili indawo yakho ebonakalayo namathuluzi akho edijithali adinga ukusekela ukuhlukana phakathi kokuthi "wena" kanye "nomdali wakho."
Khetha Indawo Yokusebenzela Ezinikezelwe Uma usebenza ekhaya, lo ngumthetho wokuqala. Indawo yakho yokusebenzela ayidingi ukuba igumbi elihlukile (yize lokho kulungile), kodwa kufanele kube indawo echaziwe.
"Iba Nohambo Lokuya emsebenzini": Ngisho noma ivele ihambe uye kudeski elithile ekhoneni legumbi lakho lokuphumula, dala inkambiso ebonisa ukuqala nokuphela kosuku lwakho lokusebenza. Kugcine Kucocekile: Ekupheleni kwebhulokhi yakho yomsebenzi, lungisa indawo yakho. Lesi senzo somzimba sisiza ubuchopho bakho ukuthi buphume kumodi yomsebenzi. Shiya Indawo Yokusebenzela: Uma usuqedile usuku, qeda. Ungalethi ikhompuyutha ephathekayo yakho kusofa ukuze uthole "i-imeyili eyodwa ngaphezulu."
Sebenzisa Ubuchwepheshe Kunzuzo Yakho Amadivayisi akho ngokuvamile angumthombo omkhulu wokuhlanganisa. Sebenzisa izici zabo ukuphoqelela imingcele yakho.
Ama-Akhawunti Ahlukene: Dala ama-akhawunti ezokuxhumana nabantu ahlukene nama-akhawunti e-imeyili ebhizinisi lakho. Sebenzisa amaphrofayili akho omuntu siqu kubangani nomndeni kuphela. Sebenzisa amamodi okugxila: Hlela amamodi okuthi "Ungaphazamisi" noma "Gxila" kufoni yakho nekhompuyutha ukuze uthulise izaziso zomsebenzi ngesikhathi somuntu siqu. Hlela Izixhumanisi Zakho: Esikhundleni sokwabelana ngenqwaba yezixhumanisi zomuntu siqu nezomsebenzi, sebenzisa ihabhu elimaphakathi lebhizinisi lakho. Ithuluzi elihlanzekile le-link-in-bio elifana ne-Seemless likuvumela ukuthi uqondise izethameli zakho kukho konke okuqukethwe kwakho okubalulekile, isitolo sakho, kanye nencwadi yakho yezindaba endaweni eyodwa, ugcina amaphrofayili akho eyimfihlo futhi egxile.
Ukuphatha Isikhathi Sakho: Ukuhlelela Ukuhlanzeka Ukuphatha isikhathi injini yokuhlukanisa. Ngaphandle kwesimiso, umsebenzi uzochitheka nakanjani kuwo wonke amagumbi okuphila kwakho.
Hlanganisa Ukudala Okuqukethwe Kwakho Esikhundleni sokudala okuqukethwe nsuku zonke, nikela amabhulokhi athile, amade wesikhathi ukukhiqiza inqwaba yokuqukethwe kweviki noma kwenyanga. Lokhu kusebenza kahle kakhulu futhi kukhulula sonke isikhathi sakho kweminye imisebenzi yebhizinisi noma, okubaluleke kakhulu, ngokwakho.
Sebenzisa Ukuvinjwa Kwesikhathi Phatha umsebenzi wakho womdali njengomsebenzi onamahora amisiwe.Vimba isikhathi ekhalendeni lakho semisebenzi ethile:
Ukudalwa kokuqukethwe (isb., ngoLwesibili nangoLwesine, 9 AM - 12 PM) Imisebenzi Yokulawula (isb., uMsombuluko, 2 PM - 4 PM) Ukusebenzelana Komphakathi (isb., imizuzu engama-30 njalo ekuseni phakathi neviki) Isikhathi Somuntu Siqu: Lokhu akuxoxiswana ngakho. Vimba isikhathi sezinto zokuzilibazisa, ukuzivocavoca, kanye nobathandayo, futhi uqaphe lesi sikhathi kanzima.
Setha Imingcele Yezokuxhumana Nezithameli Zakho Izithameli zakho zidinga ukwazi uma utholakala. Beka obala mayelana namahora akho okusebenza ukuze ulawule lokho okulindele.
Setha isiphenduli esizenzakalelayo sama-imeyili nama-DM asho ukuthi abantu bangalindela nini impendulo. Kumlando wakho noma endabeni egqanyisiwe, yisho isikhathi sakho esijwayelekile sokuphendula. Sebenzisa izici ezifana "Nemodi Yeholide" esitolo sakho noma amathuluzi okuhlela ukuze ulawule ukutholakala ngesikhathi sokuphumula.
Ukuhlakulela Umqondo Olungile Wokulinganisela Ucezu lokugcina, futhi mhlawumbe olubaluleke kakhulu, umcabango wakho wangaphakathi. Imingcele ayisizi uma wena ngokwakho ungayihloniphi.
Funda Ukuthi Cha Njengoba ithonya lakho likhula, namathuba azokhula. Akuwona wonke azoqondana nemigomo noma uhlelo lwakho. Ukuthi "cha" ekuhlanganyeleni, kunhlolokhono, noma umcimbi ophula isikhathi sakho somuntu siqu akukona ukwehluleka; kuyisu lokukhetha lokuvikela inhlalakahle yakho.
Chaza "Kungani" Kwakho Xhuma kabusha ngesizathu esiyinhloko oqale ukusidala. Ingabe kwakungenxa yenkululeko? Inkulumo yokudala? Ukwakha umphakathi? Uma umsebenzi unzima kakhulu, ukukhumbula "kungani" kwakho kukusiza ukuthi wenze izinqumo ezisekela imigomo yakho yokugcina, ehlanganisa ukuphila okujabulisayo nempilo.
Yamukela Amandla E-Digital Detox Hlela izikhathi ezivamile lapho unqamula khona ngokuphelele kuma-akhawunti akho abadali. Lokhu kungaba impelasonto egcwele nyanga zonke noma "iSonto elingenaso inkundla yezokuxhumana." Leli khefu likuvumela ukuthi usethe kabusha futhi ubuyele emsebenzini wakho ngamandla avuselelwe kanye nombono. Amathuluzi ahlanganisa ubukhona bakho obuchwepheshile, njengekhasi elihlelwe kahle le-Seemless, akwenza kube lula ukuhoxa ngoba uyazi ukuthi izethameli zakho zisenayo indlela ecacile yomsebenzi wakho.
Isiphetho: Ukuphila Kwakho Kuyimpahla Yakho Enkulu Ukwehlukanisa impilo yakho yomuntu siqu neyebhizinisi akukhona ukwakha udonga phakathi kwakho nezethameli zakho. Kumayelana nokwakha isisekelo sokusimama. Kuwumkhuba wokuzihlonipha wena njengomuntu oqeqeshiwe kanye nomuntu. Ngokusebenzisa imingcele engokomzimba, yedijithali, neyesikhathi, uvikela uthando oluthuthukisa ubuhlakani bakho. Khumbula, umdali oshile akakwazi ukudala, futhi usomabhizinisi okhungathekile akakwazi ukusungula izinto ezintsha. Inhlalakahle yakho iyithuluzi elibaluleke kakhulu kukhithi yakho. Qala kancane—khetha isu elilodwa kulokhu okuthunyelwe futhi ulisebenzise kuleli sonto. Ikusasa lakho, kokubili ngokwakho kanye nomsebenzi, uzokubonga ngakho.
